Now, I've already introduced our daughter, C-chan, who is more lovely by the day (and has already passed three weeks of age). That's not to say we (like all parents) don't have our moments at 3am in the morning, when she decides not to got sleep. It's a feeling only parents can know (and dread). However, it's a feeling we wouldn't change for the world. And not least of all, as the pregnancy was far from straight-forward...
We found out in week 23 (just over halfway through) that our baby had what is known as a Single Umbilical Artery (SUA) - the normal umbilical cord has 2 arteries and 1 vein, but an SUA baby only has a single artery. That means the baby has only half the blood vessels from the placenta providing nutrients. This is not that rare, with approximately 0.5 - 1% of births exhibiting it - and is indeed more common in multiple births. Whilst not rare, the outcomes can be quite life-determining for the young baby. Despite this the SUA complication is not something that you hear that much (if at all). There's no clear cause for SUA - and appears just to happen sometimes. Perhaps it's only the advent of high resolution doppler ultrasound that it's been routinely identified during antenatal tests. Thankfully our ultrasound had also shown no other problem indicators.
The difficulty with SUA babies, is that the odds of birth defects suddenly jumps up to between 25-30% of all live births. That's getting pretty damn close to 1 in 3... and at those odds, Russian Roulette is actually better odds. Of course, for 70-75% of SUA babies, there's no apparent problems, and life goes on as normal. The biggest risk is that the baby will be exhibit intrauterine growth restriction resulting in a very small baby - and with issues similar to premature babies.
We had to wait another whole 9 weeks (week 32) for the next ultrasound to see how our baby was doing. Amazingly, it turned out that our baby was right on the median growth (no mean achievement, especially given that T-chan is only a wee little lass herself). Once again, there were no adverse indicators and everything looked like it was going excellently. We did have a bit of a scare however when T-chan tested positive for pregnancy-induced diabetes... which a subsequent test proved false. We were starting to feel a little more confident that everything was going to be ok. After all, things couldn't be too bad if the baby was growing well...
Then along came the Week 39 scan, just a week before C-chan was born. By this stage T-chan's parents had arrived from Japan, and had come to meet the obstetrician - it was a big thing, and there was much talking and crying going on in his office. Then we had the scan, right there in the office, with T-chan's mum crying for joy in the background. Everything looked and sounded good - and then the obstetrician did the growth estimate measurement. It was quite a shock when we were suddenly told that the baby had only grown approximately 700g in the intervening seven weeks (with an estimated weight of 2,500g). We had been expecting closer to 3,500g! Suddenly, things didn't quite seem real - and we were now looking at a near "premature" sized baby (in the lowest 10th percentile of weights for gestation age). Needless to say we were just a little stressed that week, suddenly wondering if we were spiralling toward the 30% zone of bad outcomes. It was a quiet ride home that afternoon, and whilst T-chan's parents didn't know the full extent of the issues, they knew that this was not in the plan...
Fast forward one week later (almost) and C-chan was finally born after about 5.5-6 hours of labour... and I have to admit completely without our obstetrician who was stuck in theatre for an operation. To our complete and utter relief C-chan looked a happily healthy (and loud) baby girl when she finally arrived. A few minutes later (after some important time lying on mum's chest), they did the measurements. It turned out... amazingly.... C-chan was a very, very healthy 3,530 grams. The last scan had been a complete error! In fact, C-chan was even 10 grams heavier than her older brother L-kun had been at birth. Indeed, subsequent paediatrician check-ups and a fairly difficult ultrasound later (to check kidneys, as SUA babies have 5-15% chance of having problems with kidneys) seemed to show no problems at all.
I have to admit, to this day, I wish we had not had to have gone through that last week believing that she was going to be born small. Still - for us, it seems that everything had turned out well (fingers crossed), and that C-chan will enjoy a totally normal healthy life. For many families having an SUA baby however, the story is quite different - and far from happy.
My advice is that if you find out that you're baby is SUA, don't panic. Be positive. I know that's not easy to do when you first find out. There's little that can be done except wait... indeed that's perhaps the worst part of it. You can of course ask for a re-scan if in doubt, and there are a couple of invasive tests that should be avoided if you can help it - which may tell you if there's a chromosonal cause to the SUA. There's much however to be said for living with hope, not dread, in your heart as your baby grows in the womb. My other advice is that if you learn you have an SUA baby, be very careful how much time you spend on the internet... as there are countless horrible accounts to keep you sleepless at night. Really scary stories - which I'm not going to repeat here (you don't need the negatives to be reinforced). The positive stories like this one don't have any where near the impact as the negative ones. If in doubt, speak to your obstetrician. Early. Though don't necessarily take their first answer as the end of it.
And remember - don't concentrate on the odds. This is not about being lucky or unlucky. It's not your fault that you're in this situation, and there's little that you can actively do except to be strong. You'll need it for both yourself, your partner and your children.
Life, precious as it is, is also precarious. Cherish it.
